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Experiences of a rural DJ

February 2011

Support Marriage Equality this Valentine's Day / Tea Dance in Brattleboro

    On Valentine’s Day, my parents celebrate their 35 anniversary and my grandparents celebrate their 59.  If my paternal grandfather were living, his 74 wedding anniversary to my Grandma would have been last week.   The strength of their relationships has been the most influential part of my life.
   In college, I studied civil rights, never missing an opportunity to meet people influential in fighting for marriage equality. When I began my work as DJ for a nightclub when I turned 21, I also started side work for friends entertaining their commitment ceremonies.  My first was for dear friends of mine, one of the first civil unions of Vermont; a decade later, their son, one of my schoolmates at MRHS, was my first second generation wedding.  No matter what legal standing the unions have been given through this process of achieving equal rights, I have considered each wedding as equally important and meaningful.
    There are now more than 1300 wedded same-sex couples in New Hampshire and many more that have been making plans to wed.  The increased amount of ceremonies has created a boost for the wedding industry and its vendors, as well as tourism and marketing within the state.  The ability for partners to be able to share policies and receive benefits associated with that right is another factor to why we are considered one of the healthiest states in the nation.  We have created a community of acceptance that has provided all of our neighbors’ similar rights.
    With the political changes in Concord, those rights are being threatened through legislation with hearings beginning this week.  For those of us in Fitzwilliam and Richmond, we are being represented by Richard Dwinell (Cheshire 5) who has no political record on this matter.  I strongly urge my friends and neighbors in this area to call him (585-9225) and let him know how you feel, hopefully supporting equal rights for everyone.  You can also email him at rjdwinell@myfairpoint.net ; please include the NH Freedom to Marry info@nhftm.org as a recipient or email them to let them know how your conversation went.
    It is particularly important for small business owners (florists, caterers, venues, anybody who is self –employed and providing services …) and our religious leaders to help this important cause.  I am attaching two different forms to collect information about how you can do that.  Please take the time to look at them and fill them out; every caring voice in support of equal love can make a difference in this argument.
    For those interested in getting more involved, this Thursday will start the hearings for HB 437. Supporters are encouraged to meet at the Barley House at 132 North Main Street at 9 AM to prepare for testimony that begins at 10.  Having pre-written statements (24 copies for the amount of representatives on the Judicial Board) helps the process. Anybody interested in either attending or doing phone banking is encouraged to contact Mike at 340-6604.
Share     In the meantime, let’s spread the word to our friends and family on Facebook.  Let’s ask our neighbors to stand with us, as popular opinion has been showing in current trending surveys.  Let’s create discussions with our politicians on every level to prevent us from having to repeat this civil right battle.  Let us gather, have fun and donate to the non-profit institutions that help protect these rights like the NH Freedom to Marry www.nhftm.org .  This Sunday, starting at 4 PM, I shall be hosting a Valentine’s Day Tea Dance at Inferno in Brattleboro, Vermont.  The beneficiary of money raised from the cover, raffles, etc. will be NH Freedom to Marry, who will be joining us with current literature.
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Referral Incentive Program

Referral Incentive Program
 
Save HUNDREDS OF DOLLARS on your next event!!
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     Referrals are the cornerstone to building a good entertainment business. Especially when dealing with once in a lifetime event, it is important to know that your DJ is dependable, engaging, able to adapt & prepared for any type of emergency.  It is through personal referrals that most people pick vendors for their weddings, anniversaries, fund-raisers, and other special event plans. 
 
    As an individual, I recognize how time consuming writing these referrals for websites can be and I wanted to create a rewards system for the people and businesses that take that time to recommend my business to others. For up to ten websites that you give positive reviews of my services, I shall give you a gift certificate of $10 per review.
 
REPEAT CHARITIES WILL BE ABLE TO HAVE THEIR NEXT EVENT FOR THE LOW COST OF $100!!
 
     My recommendation is to write one overall reference that you can copy and paste, and do all ten from the list below at once.  When finished send an email to me (cjholman@hotmail.com) and I shall email you the coupon.  For less than an hour of your time, you can save $150-$200 on your next party or get a coupon to give to a friend or family member for their party. 
 
   For venues, vendors (photographers, caterers, restaurants, bars,  etc.) with whom I collaborate that provide the ten references, I offer to entertain a company holiday party or summer workplace outing for the low cost of $200 (Sun.-Fri.).  Again, let me know that you have submitted the reviews and I shall be glad to respond with reviews of your services or industry as well. This is a great way to do company parties that recognize the value of your employees.  I appreciate the great teamwork I have experienced with many wonderful venues & their staffs.
 
    For brides & grooms, the most important referrals for a DJ, I also add the possibility of doing an anniversary party (Sunday-Friday) for $200.  These certificates will not expire, so you can use it to celebrate your first, fifth, or twentieth anniversary.  Due to the new nature of the program, I shall honor all referrals, even for weddings done more than a decade ago.  If you have any questions, please let me know.  I enjoy deeply the strong, long-lasting relationships I create with my couples and would be honored to help reunite the friends and family that attend your unions and receptions.
 
    If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to email or call me.  I sincerely appreciate your help with this important step in my business development.  Below there is a list of websites with which I advertise that reviews can be left:
 
1.      Facebook (CJ the DJ fan page)
2.      Eventective
3.      Wedding Wire
4.      Thumbtack
5.      PartyBlast
6.      Eventful
7.      Yahoo
8.      Purple Unions
9.      LinkedIn
10.  Email me for use on my personal website.
(**Additional Bonus** $50.00 off your next event total or added to coupon if you provide 5 pictures or video highlights of your event for promotional use)

Flowers for Charitable Fundraising - Roses for Valentine's Day

One of the great benefits of my work is that I get to network with a large variety of wonderful people and businesses, like Jessica Van Der Kern from The Vintage Rose Boutique & Botanicals.  To help raise money for five of my upcoming charity gigs, she has agreed to sell flowers, donating a portion of each half dozen to the philanthropy you chose.
So, for example, you can have her bring a dozen roses to Saturday night's dance at the Winchendon Legion.  It is $50 for the dozen, but $10 will be donated to your cause - which may be the Winchendon Legion.  Not only are you surprising your sweetheart with a great gift, but you are helping with additional fundraising! 
Or you can call and place the order for another day delivery; she will explain any additional delivery charges.
 
The information that will be gathered when you call in your order will be:
 
1. Payment information (Visa, MC, Discover or by check & cash in store or at gigs)
 
2. Delivery information (location, time, etc.)
 
3. Card message
 
4. Charity of choice
 
Individually wrapped flowers (roses, sunflowers, etc) will be available for sale at the events, with the proceeds going to the charity. 
 
The events Jessica will be at:
 
Wed. 2/2 Dog Park Fundraiser - Fitzwilliam Inn
ShareSat. 2/5 Winchendon American Legion
Fri. 2/11 Jaffrey American Legion
 
She may be stopping by additional events.  Show somebody that you care by sending them flowers with more meaning....